Nigger. If
reading, hearing, or saying this just now forced you to pause and to think,
then you should already understand the answer to the question of whether the
“N” word should be used at leisure. The “N” word was not designed for leisure
folic. Its use was and still is inherently contextual to deprivation and
oppression. The use of it is unmistakably derogative.

With the needs to know the languages of life and learn about other peoples, and the need for your actions to speak louder than your words, there is a third element to the ways of communcation. This third element is your actual speech. I hope that your actions embody your words that come out of your mouth. This now brings us to very specifically the words we all use, the most common language of life. Do the words you use offend people? Are you politically correct in your speech? Is that speech progressive?